ReviewDoes This Book Make Me Look Chic?
As I perused nine style books, some of the best counsel I found was in truth contained in a reprint of a 50-year-old book with the rather shocking title of “Wife Dressing: The Fine Art of Being a Well-Dressed Wife.”
“The sole arbiter of what you wear is your own judgment,” says it is author, a thrice-married career woman named Anne Fogarty, who published the book in 1959. Its wisdom stems in big portion from Ms. Fogarty’s freshening lack of concern with youth: Apparently, back in 1959, it was sufficient to be smart and appropriate.
“Wife Dressing” likewise lacks pictures, altho there are black-and-white sketches for chapters like “After the trousseau what?” and “Am wife will travel.” Rosemary Feitelberg, a writer at Women’s Wear Daily, found the basi volume at a fashion exhibition. “I expected to hate it,” says Ms. Feitelberg. Instead, she found a publisher.
After getting my gag reflex underneath control, I ran into that when read through the prism of history, “Wife Dressing” provides laughs and — in spite of galore detours into petticoats and such — is chock-full of sage advice.
It’s still unfeigned that bras “probably need more replenishing than any other underwear item” because they lose their hold over time. There is harsh guidance on clearing out closets to disclose the good stuff: “Compress your wardrobe. Be relentless.” And there is the chapter on taste and money, in which Ms. Fogarty reminds us where the buck stops, at any age: your own judgment. — Wall Street Journal, March 19, 2008
Dressing the Part
Every now and then, a lot of amusive things come throughout my desk. My new bestloved is an advance of Wife Dressing: The Fine Art of Being a Well-Dressed Wife. Written in 1959 by former model-turned-fashion-designer/wife/mother Anne Fogarty, it holds some hilariously kitschy counsel that reflects the thoughts of the day:
From chapter 1, “The original principle of wife dressing is Complete Femininity — the selection of clothes as adornment, not as a mere covering … the wedding ring is only the beginning. When your husband’s eyes light up as he comes in at night, you’re in sad shape if it’s only because he smells dinner cooking.”
From chapter 4, “A chronic blight on the American home scene is sleepwear in the kitchen! Negligees, bathrobes and terry towels do NOT belong with food, pots and pans. The kitchen is your natural setting as a woman and you ought to look beautiful, not bedraggled, in it.”
From chapter 10, “White gloves are only effective when they’re snowy, glisteningly white. If you like white cotton gloves as much as I do, wash them after each wearing.”
But embedded within all this funny instruction is tried-and-true counsel that still works today: Remember to blot your lips before dining to keep away from leaving tacky lipstick rings on glasses. Don’t wear a tight dress to a buffet dinner party in case you end up sitting on the floor. And my favorite: six things to ask yourself before buying something on sale (number six: Will it recompense it is own way as a fellow member of my wardrobe, not just loll as a temporary guest in the back of the closet?).
The intro by Women’s Wear Daily writer Rosemary Feitelberg puts it all into context, sharing a heap of details behind the author’s life and showing us how far we’ve come — and how a heap of things never change. It’s a great gift for any of your engaged fashionista pals — or be altogether innovative and buy it for yourself. (Thankfully, we may do that nowadays!) It hits bookstores on February 14, 2008, from publisher Glitterati, Incorporated. — Susan — Destination Wedding, January 10, 2008
Dressing the Part
If the title, “Wife Dressing: The Fine Art of Being a Well-Dressed Wife,” doesn’t stop you in your tracks, numerous of the tips in architect Anne Fogarty’s 1959 prefeminist fashion-advice chestnut surely will. Consider this line from the chapter entitled “Am Wife, Will Travel”: “I would personally rather stay home than travel with three pairs of shoes. Last year, for a ten-day rest at Boca Raton, I brought eighteen dresses and twenty pairs of shoes.” The book’s just been re-released by Glitterati, with a new introduction by Rosemary Feitelberg (Style.”You have to wonder if Anne Fogarty wasn’t in on the joke,” Feitelberg says. “She talks when it comes to all this stuff, but she was a working woman with a successful career. She had a on a weekly basis radio show, she made store appearances. This kind of thing is mutual today, but she was a real go-getter in her era.” Whether Fogarty, who was three times a wife, meant it or not, reading regarding choosing a coat to match your car (for those trips to the station to pick up hubby from the 5:07) will make you feel very thankful that things have changed. — Style.com
Fashion Wisdom & Wit from the Late 50s
When architect Anne Fogarty basi published Wife Dressing:The Fine Art of Being a Well-Dressed Wife in 1959, her witty blend of fashion savvy and wifely counsel encapsulated the sensibilities of the era, and women everyplace embraced her observations and expertise.
Opinionated, outspoken, yet always a lady, Fogarty speaks her mind on a wide range of sartorial subjects: what comprises good and bad taste, what fashion rules were meant to be broken, and suitable attire for each occasion. (Of course, having an 18″ waist doesn’t injure when it comes to being fabulous, whether the occasion is a TV consultation on Edward R. Murrow’s Person to Person or an intimate soirée chez Fogarty.)
While a lot of of the material in Wife Dressing is delightfully kitschy, much is still as applicable as when it was published almost half a century ago. “You are you,” she advises. “You are not the model in that photograph or the girl besides you in an elevator or a woman eating lunch at the next table. What they are wearing may stop traffic, but be sure it’s right for you before emulating the effect.”
With charming stylish pen-and-ink sketches all around and even a Chic Test to determine your own Fashion IQ, Wife Dressing is an agreeably diverting walk down memory lane–in the proper foot attire, of course! — Fashiontribe.com, January 15, 2007
Fogarty wrote a book called Wife Dressing in 1959, a guide for “the fine art of being a well-dressed wife with provocative notes for the patient husband who pay the bills.” In the book she recognized that women led varied lives working, as students, wives, and mothers, and encouraged women to find their own style and color–recommending an understated, natural look that did not slavishly follow the fashion of the day. — FashionEncyclopedia.com
In 1959, Ann Fogarty’s book “Wife Dressing: The Fine Art of Being a Well-Dressed Wife”, was freed for the introductory time in New York. Now, almost 50 years later, it has been re-released the use and amusement of us younger wives. The age of this book becomes extra clear with the “provocative notes for the patient husband who recompense the bills”.
Since I got married this summer, I have at times found it funny to play my role to the full. Get dressed up in some 50′s housewife dress and apron and bake cookies for our guests. In this case the book is an splendid source for how to stay stylish and fashion conscious in a 50′s kind of way. But it is also so much more than that…
Even even though the original release of this book was so long ago, much of it’s content is just as utile today. Like the chapter on how to care for your wardrobe. “Uniformity of hangers gives your wardrobe cohesion. It’s good for your morale to open your closet door and see everything looking nice.” It couldn’t be more true.
Or the chapter on taste and money. “A clothes budget is like Einstein’s theory. It’s based on relativity. The relative value of perhaps one very highpriced coat versus two less costly; of one good fur versus a couple of bogus furs; of an uttermost high-fashion item versus a classic.” And she also brings to the attention how good taste and cash don’t inevitably depend on each other. A good starting point on the subject.
And lets not forget when it comes to the husband in all of this, after all he recompense the bills. He’s for example noted when it comes to personal grooming: “When your husband’s eyes light up as he comes at in at night, you’re in sad shape if it’s only because he smells dinner cooking.”
The fun thing is that when you suppose the book to be all regarding ridiculous fashion rules or just to be very conservative in general, it’s in truth rather open to experimenting with clothes (although within sure limits) and rather funny, something that becomes clear on the chapter on breaking the rules as well as the fashion IQ test at the end of the book. And I guess that these days, with all kinds of synthetic materials and bad tailoring, that it is a utile source for how to care for (and wear) tweeds and furs like they used in the old days. But while it does integrate utile counsel and helpful ideas, I would rather commend it as a sweet gift to a newly married (or engaged) girlfriend, or perchance just a little something to amuse yourself with. — StyleBytes.net, January 22, 2008
It’s the attitude that strikes one when reading these excerpts. While distinctively fifties in numerous ways, there is something regarding pride and a sense of femininity that is missing in today’s society (to say not one thing of a willingness to please those lucky males who were capable to view them). Very nostalgic. That sense of mystery is gone, that sense that women possess something that men will NEVER be capable to own–that makes them so particular (and that a great deal of of us try to emulate!)–all portrayed through their clothing! The sounds of the petticoat, it is scent, and it is capacity to make the lady that much more inaccessible–so exciting–makes it a distinctive garment. So sad that it is gone, apparently forever! — Pettipond.com
Pinafores, and Power Moves
IF the drag queen John Epperson — better known by his diva name, Lypsinka (she of the arched brows, Joan Crawford lips and not-so-well-contained hysteria) — is looking for inspiration for his next one-woman show, he need look no further.
The re-release of a frequent 1959 fashion guide, “Wife Dressing,” written by the thrice-divorced tastemaker and dressmaker Anne Fogarty (who championed petticoats, fur handbags and tightly belted coveralls, and also invented a dress line that was a hit at Lord & Taylor) would give him a great deal of material, with crinolines to spare.
Ms. Fogarty was a woman who never had less than six sets of pajamas in her “active sleep wardrobe”; who took 20 pairs of shoes for a 10-day vacation in Boca Raton, Fla.; who traveled to Europe with 22 petticoats (at customs in Ireland, a suitcase keeping 18 of them exploded like a comedian’s may of snakes); and who once woke her husband at the beach before breakfast by ironing petticoats on her side of the bed. Strangely, in spite of the faultless wardrobe, the marriage didn’t last.
Ms. Fogarty instructs wives to wear lovely “pinafores, organdies and aprons” and “gay cotton wrap-arounds” while scrambling eggs for breakfast, because “the kitchen is your natural setting as a woman and you must look beautiful, not bedraggled in it.”
Is this the stuff of comedy or tragedy?
There’s a lot of affection in this workaholic, come-as-you-are age for the ladylike Jackie-O era, when women didn’t leave the house without girdles or white cotton gloves (one of Ms. Fogarty’s fixations). This book, as it amuses nevertheless mildly and accidentally, shows the folly of such nostalgia. — New York Times, April 6, 2008
When a Wife Has to be Well Dressed Arm Candy
I just finished reading Wife Dressing: The Fine Art of Being a Well-Dressed Wife by the late fashion maven Anne Fogarty, and I’ve changed my mind. Now the 1950s are looking very good to me.
The book was original published in 1959 – prime time in my mother’s life – and has just been re-issued with an introduction by fashion writer Rosemary Feitelberg.
It is regarding the care and feeding of a woman’s wardrobe so that she will always look outstanding for her husband and her aspect will never reflect seriously on him.
As a wife, she writes, you are “an appendage of your husband, Adam’s rib that was divided from him to form woman and now spiritually return to his side.”
Retro, dated and sexist, sure. But Fogarty’s irrepressible a feeling of excitement for her subject makes this book a delight. It is a combining of fashion savvy and wifely advice, and it gives a finelooking clear picture of what was expected of women in the late 1950s and early 1960s.
For those of us who had mothers who lived for the duration of the time of kid gloves, fur wraps, billowing petticoats and dressing up to go into town, reading this book is like waking from a half-remembered dream.
“Wife-dressing is some things,” Fogarty begins. “An art. A science. A labor of love. A means of self-expression. And, above all, a contributing element to a happy marriage.”
Dress for everything, she advises, and dress appropriately. Never wear an aging cocktail dress to the office or a beat-up wool for housework. “Their primary design was for something rather dissimilar and they will be uncomfortable as well as unattractive.”
Fogarty, who brags lightly in regards to her 18-inch waist, had rules that must be followed: Be relentless in weeding out of your wardrobe items that are out of style, and only shop for clothes when you are in the right mood or you will make poor choices.
And she had rules you may break – tweeds are not just for the country. “I love tweed for cocktails in town.” And you may dress your child in black if she has dark hair and the skin tones of a Renaissance portrait.
My parents lived on the fringe of the world Fogarty describes. A time when the executive came home to find a martini waiting for him. A time when having the boss and his wife to dinner was a career move. A time when silk brocade lounging pajamas were an extravagant gift from him to her.
In Fogarty’s world, each woman looked like Tippi Hedren in The Birds – perfectly turned out, even in gathering doom.
“A healthful respect for your clothes shows an even more salubrious respect for your body and yourself as a person and a wife,” she wrote. “Your husband may tease you in regards to ‘Care and Feeding,’ but you may be sure his teasing will be tempered with pride.”
I think I would have loved to live in that world, where a woman’s dressing room was filled with cashmere and silk and leather and pearls rather of jeans, cotton Ts and sensible shoes. A world where the occasion dictated what you wore, and if you followed the rules, you always looked the percentage you were playing. — Baltimore Sun, February 3, 2008
From the PublisherTimeless counsel from Anne Fogarty’s WIFE DRESSING:
“Fashion is for today. Don’t look back. Don’t look further in front than the current season. Don’t save the dress that won wolf whistles the summer before last. The whistles may turn to groans.”
“You are you. You are not the model in that photograph or the girl besides you in an elevator of a woman eating lunch at the next table. What they are wearing may stop traffic, but be sure it’s right for you before emulating the effect.”
“Don’t be fooled. Don’t be cajoled. Don’t be `conned.’ Don’t let the mythical `they’ who supposedly dictate fashion from above squash your individuality.”
“Expense does not make sure good taste, nor is `good’ taste inevitably highpriced to acquire.”
“My bargain motto is, `If it’s something you wouldn’t buy at the regular price, why buy it now?’”
From the AuthorTimeless counsel from Anne Fogarty’s WIFE DRESSING:
“Fashion is for today. Don’t look back. Don’t look further in front than the current season. Don’t save the dress that won wolf whistles the summer before last. The whistles may turn to groans.”
“You are you. You are not the model in that photograph or the girl besides you in an elevator of a woman eating lunch at the next table. What they are wearing may stop traffic, but be sure it’s right for you before emulating the effect.”
“Don’t be fooled. Don’t be cajoled. Don’t be `conned.’ Don’t let the mythical `they’ who supposedly dictate fashion from above squash your individuality.”
“Expense does not make sure good taste, nor is `good’ taste inevitably highpriced to acquire.”
“My bargain motto is, `If it’s something you wouldn’t buy at the regular price, why buy it now?’”
Surprisingly subversive or Emily Post of fashion?